Tom will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Charity; his children, Brendan and Alix; his son, Kaleb Downey; and numerous extended family members and friends, including his lifelong friend, Ash Gagne.

He was predeceased and his daughter Mya Cameron Elizabeth Valade and his son Mitchell James Valade.

In keeping with Tom’s wishes, no funeral service will be held.

Those wishing to make a donation in his memory may do so to the family at charityangeline@gmail.com.

The diagnosis changed, but his courage never did.

Through a cycle of endless health battles,

He kept his eyes on the prize; us.

He was a husband who shielded his family,

A stepfather who proved love is a choice and a promise.

He fought through the darkest days just to hold our hands.

He didn’t lose his battles;

He simply finished the race, having given us everything.